John Lennon was right – “All You Need is Love.”

At our recent Leadership & Life Mastery Day in Melbourne, we discussed a multitude of ways as to how to create “Relationships Beyond Limits!” So it therefore makes sense to cover the most vital and foundational ingredient. The quality of our relationships are determined by one element and the quality of our life is dependant upon how much of it we have in our lives.

“Love is the very reason we exist”.

It should come as no surprise to you that, that element is of course “LOVE”. However, would it surprise you to discover that love is the very reason we exist? In her book, “Embraced by the Light”, Betty J. Eadie explains why love is so critical to our existence. In her book, she recounts her soul level awakening after leaving this earth upon haemorrhaging after giving birth. Yes, she died. On her death journey, Betty was transported to a place she called, ‘Heaven’. There she explains being presented before ‘The Council of Men’, among the Circle of the Wise. Here she was given the opportunity to ask any questions she desired the answers to. Betty upon being brought back to life in the hospital, she recalled all her questions, though was only able to remember the answers to few of her questions. One of those questions that Betty asked, was the biggie – “Why are we here? Why do we exist on earth?” The Council of Men answered her question and the answer was, “To Learn to love”. To learn to love all people, to love the air we breathe, to love the earth we walk upon, the water we drink, the careers we create, the cars we drive, the dogs and cats we pat, everything. According to The Council of Men, John Lennon of course was right, “All We Need is Love”. Our relationships provide the opportunity for us to learn how to love. The first step in learning how to love is by experiencing love within ourselves. This provides us with the opportunity to express love to others. We cannot create outside of ourselves that which we cannot see inside of ourselves.

“We cannot create outside of ourselves

that which we cannot see inside of ourselves”.

You may have heard of the “Mirror Model” or you may know it as, “Perception is Projection”. That is, you cannot project what you cannot perceive or simply, you cannot see or experience anything that is not already inside of you. In relation to love, you cannot experience love if it does not exist in you at some level. Equally, you cannot experience Anger if at some level it does not exist in you. Therefore, to bring about true love into your life, it is a necessary function of the process to remove its opposites. For love to exist, we must first remove negative or disempowering feelings and events of the past at a cellular level. Negative emotions and memories that bring about Blame, Sadness, Anger, Fear and Guilt are stored within you. it makes perfect sense then to remove these disempowering emotions as it is undeniable that you cannot have two opposing themes running through your life. For love to exist, it is necessary that its opposites be vanquished from your life.

“For love to exist,

it is necessary that its opposites be vanquished”.

The second step in having love return into your life is to install it. So how do we do this? In order to learn to love we must first direct our love, our deepest respect, our kindness toward ourselves. Loving others without self-love is neediness and is counterfeit. If we love ourselves and then create a relationship with another, our love is therefore strengthened as the act of giving and receiving commences. It is the unification of couples and love’s ultimate expression is the unification of the planet. Betty J. Eadie said, “We are all collectively bonded to each other while on earth, united in this one supreme purpose – to learn to love each other. The highest of energy is love”. If we are successful at learning to truly love all, we will raise the vibration of the planet to such joyous levels that we will in essence, create heaven on earth.

“Love’s ultimate expression is

the unification of the planet”.

Kinesiology is the practice of muscle testing to identify imbalances in the body’s structural, chemical or emotional energies while locating blockages in energetic flow. Muscle testing is achieved by testing the strength or resistance of a patient’s arm held outwards and having placed pressure upon it. In David Hawkins’ book, Power versus Force he states, “Some ideas are so weakening that merely holding them in mind makes a test subject unable to keep up his arm at all. Powerful patterns are associated with health; weak patterns are associated with sickness, disease, and death. If you hold forgiveness in mind, your arm will be very strong. If you hold revenge in mind, your arm will go weak.” Betty J. Eadie’s Embraced by the Light confirms that we shall eventually have to accept responsibility for every thought, word and deed we beget and re-experience exactly whatever suffering we have caused. In this sense, we create our own heaven or hell.

Here were a few suggestions and notes from “Relationships Beyond Limits!”

1. The illusion of separateness is found in the masculine and feminine

2. The purpose of all relationships is ‘Understanding’.

3. The point of Understanding is to learn about ourselves by relating to and expressing ourselves to others. The more we learn about others, the more we discover about ourselves (Perception is Projection).

4. Our senses are designed to distract us, delude us. We only believe what we see, hear, smell, touch, taste and think.

5. Our senses also tell us we are different. Others look different, sound different, smell, touch, taste and think differently.

6. Grow your Charisma by: -

a) Ask 4 questions in the first 20 minutes – You’ll seem younger, taller, thinner.

b) Ask open-ended questions: - “And then…Meaning….And how do you feel about that…”

c) Let the speaker finish their words before you speak.

d) Women speak around 20,000 to 30,000 words.

e) Men speak around 7,000 to 10,000 words.

7. Many of our beliefs form during the imprint period (0-7 years). And many of our relationships end at the peril of some of our negative beliefs.

8. Our values are the rudders of our lives and determine our direction. Many of these values were determined through ‘The Ages of Humankind’ and became social norms, rules, laws and mantras as to how to live on our planet.

9. The Ages of Humankind are: -

a) The Survival Age

b) The Agricultural Age

c) The Industrial Age

d) The Age of Truth

9. The Survival Age’s values were determined by one’s Ability to Survive and society valued: -

a) Speed

b) Hunting

c) Fighting

10. The Agricultural Age’s values were determined by one’s Ability to Sustain itself and society valued: -

a) Strength

b) Persistence

c) Endurance

11. The Industrial Age’s values were determined by one’s Ability to Survive and society valued: -

a) Intelligence

b) Strategic Thinking

c) Money

12. The Age of Truth’s values are determined by one’s Ability to Connect and Be Yourself and society is now moving to value: -

a) Love

b) Understanding

c) Truth

13. Our relationships teach us to connect with ourselves by understanding all that we are, by understanding all that we are not.

14. Our relationships also are teaching us to manifest all that we desire by learning to love.

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